Thursday, December 18, 2008

Bible's Mysterious Questions!

By Jack Kelley

Did They Hear It Or Didn’t They?

Q. In the book of Acts when Luke tells of Saul’s conversion in chapter 9 v 7, he says those that were with Saul heard a voice but saw no man. Then in chapter 22 v 9, Paul tells it that they who were with him saw the light, but did not hear the voice that spoke to him. Why are we reading two different versions of this amazing event ? Thank you.

A. I think what we h
ave here is more of a translation problem than anything else. The Greek word translated voice in Acts 9:7 and in Acts 22:9 also means sound. And the word translated hear in both passages also means understand. The men could have heard a sound like a voice, but not have understood what it was saying. This is a reasonable translation of both verses, but without any contradiction. Paul was the one who was there, and He told it to Luke who wrote it down. He wouldn’t have contradicted himself.



Moses And God. Face To Face?

Q. Could you explain to me how the Bible doesn’t contradict itself when certain scripture says that Moses spoke to God face to face and then Jesus says that no man has ever seen God. Thank you.

A. Of the e
ncounter between Moses and God, the Bible says this.

And the LORD said, “I will cause all my goodness to pass in front of you, and I will proclaim my name, the LORD, in your presence. I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. But,” he said, “you cannot see my face, for no one may see me and live.” Then the LORD said, “There is a place near me where you may stand on a rock. When my glory passes by, I will put you in a cleft in the rock and cover you with my hand until I have passed by. Then I will remove my hand and you will see my back; but my face must not be seen. (Exodus 33:19-23)

From this we know that when it says Moses spoke to God face to face, it’s not to be taken literally,
but figuratively, meaning they spoke directly to each other, not through a 3rd party.


When Did The Last Days Begin?

Q. In Acts 2:17-21 Peter is quoting the prophet Joel about the last days. So, did the last days start during Peters time, as he seems to believe, and continues even today? How can we know we are not simply excited about big changes in society and call it the end times. There were big changes going on during Peters time as well and yet he died without seeing the return of Christ. Might we simply be doing the same thing and are also destined to die without seeing Christs return? Peter seems to have felt the “rapture” was near but many, many centuries have passed since his death. Don’t get me wrong, I too feel the rapture is close but I keep having this nagging doubt and feel that we are going to be like Peter and all die without seeing the Lords return.

A. The phr
ase last days is used 5 times in the New Testament and covers everything from the entire Church Age (2X) to the Great Tribulation. (3X) In 2 Peter 3:3 Peter used the term in its narrow sense.

We now know something that Peter didn’t know in Acts 2, and that is Israel had to be set aside for a period of time while the Lord built the Church. This was disclosed in Acts 15:13-18, using a quote from Amos. Since then the world has been waiting for Israel to re-appear as the first major sign that the last days really are upon us. Jesus said that many of
the people being born when the first signs appeared would still be alive when He comes back. (Matt. 24:34)

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Jack Kelley

Jack Kelley is a Christian writer with several books to his credit, including -Children's Stories of the Bible, The Adult Version - and -The Stories of the Patriarchs- a fictionalized account of the Book of Genesis. His latest effort, -The Seven Churches Chronicle- is a commentary on Revelation 2-3 that appears in E-Book form on this website and is based on his recent research trip to Turkey and Greece.

Jack grew up in a main line denomination but 20 years ago experienced a radical conversion to Evangelical Christianity. Since that time he has devoted most of his time and energy to studying and teaching the bible, conducting studies throughout the western US and serving as teacher, counselor, and lay pastor. He is currently serving in Baja Mexico with his family as volunteer missionaries.

Jack can be reached at his website;
www.gracethrufaith.com

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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

The Dangers of Pornography

The Dangers of Pornography


dangers of pornography

Millions are lured into the dangers of pornography through the internet pornography’s easy accessibility, accompanied by the perception of privacy and anonymity. Cyber porn is highly addictive and extremely detrimental to intimacy in a marriage.

With over 95% of viewers being male, porn’s effect on intimacy is complicated since it is easy for wives to underestimate its bad effects. As a barrier to intimacy, habitually viewing pornography sets up formidable walls between couples: guilt, unrealistic sexual expectations, addictive behaviours, and the erosion of trust, to name just a few.

Consider the following stats on porn*:

  • Pornographic websites: 4.2 million (12% of total)
  • Daily search engine requests for porn: 68 million (25% of total search engine requests)
  • Daily porn emails: 2.5 billion (8% of total emails).
  • Internet users who view porn: 42.7%
  • Websites offering illegal child porn: 100,000
  • Monthly Internet Porn Sales: $4.9 billion
  • Every second: 28, 258 internet users are viewing porn
  • Every 39 minutes: a new porn movie is created in the United States
*Stats are by Jerry Ropelato at Internet Filter Review.

Here are just a few of the dangers of pornography:

  1. Addiction:
    The experience of sexual arousal can be intense when viewing pornography, and as a result, an addiction can be very easily formed. To respond to the body’s urges for “another hit” reinforces a habit that becomes extremely difficult to break. The combined physical and psychological responses to pornography make it “the crack cocaine of sexual addiction”.

    Addiction itself develops through progressively dangerous stages: addiction, escalation, desensitization, and then acting out sexually. The dangers of pornography are evident with every stage more destructive than the one before.

  2. Destruction of Intimacy:
    Intimacy is based on trust and commitment. The dangers of pornography can be seen as a constant erosion of those values and qualities. Almost without exception, husbands keep their addiction to porn a secret from their wives. Over the long term, the results are guilt and isolation: the husband retreats emotionally and finds himself in a barrenness of soul. He has lost any intimacy that he was experiencing with his wife, and has discovered that pornography initially excites but, without fail, disappoints.

    Sex without intimacy is hollow and futile. Yet within the framework of intimacy, sex is an awesome way for a husband and wife to connect emotionally and physically: it has the ability to provide true intimacy, joy, and sexual satisfaction!

  3. Decreased Excitement and Satisfaction:
    Research has shown that repeated exposure to pornography not only results in a diminished sexual arousal but also a decreased satisfaction with the sexual partner and the partner’s sexuality.
  4. Despair:
    The dangers of pornography come with a hidden price tag! Many men involve themselves in porn to try to fill some need, or simply out of a curiosity—and then quickly discover they are being controlled by a destructive habit. By this stage, intervention from the outside is usually necessary. Confiding in a trusted friend or counselor is the first step of the journey to become free. Unfortunately for men who try to hide their addiction, there is a spiraling dynamic of guilt, emptiness, isolation, and perverted thinking that takes place. The end of such a spiral is despair.
  5. Warped Thinking and Desensitization:
    Pornography leaves the impression that sex is unrelated to love, commitment or marriage; and that irresponsible sex has no undesirable penalties. Desensitization of rape as a crime, misconceptions about the popularity of certain sexual practices, and a decrease in the care of female sexuality are additional effects of repeated viewing of pornography.

The dangers of pornography lead to men finding more than they bargained for when starting down the path of cyber porn. For those men looking for freedom from this addiction, help is available! First, a man must recognize his sin, and turn to the Lord Jesus for forgiveness. With this awareness of forgiveness, he needs to enter into accountability relationships with other Christian men who have also found freedom over pornography. The dangers of pornography can be overcome, and a man once ensnared by cyber porn will be able to experience a new life of intimacy with his wife.

Website: www.the-intimate-couple.com





Breaking Free from Pornography

Breaking Free from Pornography


breaking free from pornography


Breaking free from pornography comes by controlling our thoughts as the Bible teaches us to. Our thoughts affect us tremendously!

Jesus told us that if a man looks on a woman to lust after her, he commits adultery in his heart (Matthew 5:28). His statement reminds us that misdirected sexuality, fantasy, and lust (sexual desire for someone other than one’s spouse) have implications that are serious and far reaching! In fact, our thoughts and thought patterns control our lives.

This is why pornography is such a powerful, yet destructive force. Since the addictive components of porn are physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual, when the hooks are in, breaking free from pornography may take some real God-power. But that power is available!

The Bible tells us that the weapons we use in our war of faith are not natural— but they are mighty through God to demolish wrong thoughts, arguments, and the enemy’s lies! We are able to have authority over every wrong thought, by bringing it into the obedience of Christ! (2 Corinthians 4:10). Breaking free from pornography will happen!

First of all, we must recognize that on one hand, many thoughts come unsolicited, and are not wrong because they appear in our head, unannounced! On the other hand, when we linger on these thoughts, lustful ones for example, and muse over them, we have committed a sin—and need forgiveness. When we do sin like this, we need to simply ask the Lord for forgiveness.

What do you do with lustful thoughts? As soon as the thought comes, follow these three steps:

  1. Be prepared for the “battle” by having a Bible verse ready that can be easily applied to the situation. For example, when Jesus was tempted by the devil to turn stones into bread, He quoted a verse from the Old Testament book of Deuteronomy: Thou shalt not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God!

    I suggest a man uses, Psalm 119:9: How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word and following its rules. Say it out loud to yourself!

  2. Next, personalize the verse, and make it your very own! How can I keep myself pure, Lord? If I obey your word, and follow your rules!

  3. Then, pray for a friend or family member who doesn’t know Jesus: Lord Jesus, I want to pray for my Uncle Joe right now—help his heart to be pure, and I pray he will come to know you as Lord and Saviour. Amen.
Make sure you use the same verse, and pray for the same person every time. In this way, you don’t have to “decide” what you’re going to do—it becomes automatic.

When temptation comes, immediately follow these steps. After a few weeks, your response will become automatic—and breaking free from pornography will be a reality!

Website: www.the-intimate-couple.com